Your Breastfed Baby Won’t Take a Bottle? Here’s What to Do!

Breastfeeding can be so wonderful. The bond you feel with your baby. The physical closeness and snuggling. And being able to give your baby something no one else can. But, chances are you won’t be able to be with your baby every single second. You may be returning to work or have errands or appointments that don’t include a baby. When mom is away your baby will need to take a bottle. But what if your happily breastfed baby won’t take a bottle? Check out these tips for what to do!

When My Baby Wouldn’t Take a Bottle

My oldest daughter took a bottle the first time we offered one to her. As a new mom, I was more upset by her being given a bottle than she was. I was worried at 6 weeks old she no longer needed me and cried (hormones, ya know).

My second baby was a much different experience. She had no interest in taking a bottle. When she refused to take a bottle at 6 weeks or so, I didn’t push her. I was planning to work from home and we both loved her breastfeeding. I didn’t see any reason to try very hard with the bottle. I don’t recommend this attitude or approach to others. It came back to bite me.

At around 3 to 4 months old my daughter started getting bloody diarrhea. YIKES! And she was diagnosed with a milk protein allergy, then shortly after a food protein allergy (yes, food, pretty much all of it.) And all of my elimination diets and starving myself to keep nursing were unsuccessful. I tried for weeks. According to our pediatric gastroenterologist, the best thing for my daughter would be a switch to formula.

So my much-too-old not to know how to take a bottle baby needed to learn to bottle feed in a hurry. We had to figure it out. And quickly.

Do you have a breastfed baby that won’t take a bottle? Try these ideas for successful bottle feeding!

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10 Tips for Getting a Breastfed Baby to Take a Bottle

1. Identify the Problem

You may be able to skip a few steps here if you can quickly determine the reason for your baby’s refusal to take a bottle. Is it the bottle itself? The taste or texture bothers them? Is it the temperature being different than milk from the breast?

Is it just because it’s coming from mom? And they know that the boob is only inches away?

If you’re able to pin down what exactly is causing your baby to refuse a bottle, you can jump right into solving the problem.

But sometimes you don’t know. And it could be a combination of any or all of these factors causing bottle resistance. If that’s the case, you just have to try everything until something clicks.

2. Introduce the Bottle Slowly

If your reason for using a bottle is you will be spending some time away from your baby, but you have pumped breast milk, the introduction to a bottle is often easier.

Try to make the breast milk as similar to direct from the breast as possible. Warm it to about body temperature so that it tastes right.

If you’re switching to formula or supplementing, it might help to transition slowly. If you can mix a small amount of formula with mostly breastmilk the first few times your baby might more easily accept a bottle. And then slowly increase the ratio of formula to breastmilk until the bottle is only formula.

If this isn’t working, then totally ignore my advice about transitioning slowly. For some babies, breast milk comes from mom or they don’t want it. And sometimes they can be taught that breast milk comes from mom and formula comes in the bottle.

So, if the gradual transitioning isn’t getting you anywhere, then consider a cold turkey all formula and only formula in the bottle approach.

I also encourage introducing the bottle for one feeding a day at first and then building up to more. If you’re exclusively breastfeeding one day and want them to start taking all their feedings from a bottle the next, the transition might be hard for you and your baby.

3. Choose the Right Time

When you’re introducing a bottle for the first time, or after repeated unsuccessful attempts, timing is everything. If your baby is already super hungry and screaming, chances of bottle success are lower. A frustrated and starving baby isn’t going to welcome experimentation when it comes to getting some nourishment. Try giving a bottle a little earlier than when they are due for their next feeding.

Another timing tip, if your baby has been refusing a bottle, sometimes if you offer it when they first wake up, they will sleepily accept it without a struggle. And after a few successes, it gets easier to offer a bottle at other times of the day.

4. Have Someone Else Give the Bottle and LEAVE

This is the first thing I would try when a breastfed baby won’t take a bottle. In fact, I encourage trying this with the very first bottle. It should come from someone other than mom.

If daddy is around, giving a bottle is a great way for him to bond and spend some time with baby. If he’s not, a grandma or other loving friend or family member will welcome the opportunity for a snuggle while they feed your little one.

But your baby knows when mom (and breastmilk) are around. They can smell you. So, mom, you’ve got to leave.

Prepare the bottle if you need to, give some instructions, give everyone a kiss, and LEAVE THE HOUSE.

And give everyone some time before you start anxiously texting to find out how it’s going.

5. Find the Right Position

Just like with breastfeeding some babies have a strong preference for how they are held during a bottle feeding.

If your baby won’t take a bottle you may have to experiment to see if a different position helps. My daughter liked to be cradled in a similar position to how she was breastfed. She even liked to lay on my nursing pillow while drinking from a bottle.

Some babies prefer to sit up more and look around while you feed them a bottle.

Especially if they prefer to breastfeed, you may have to see if a hold either similar to how they breastfeed or something completely different makes them happier with a bottle feeding.

baby won't take a bottle

6. Try Different Bottles

Sometimes getting a breastfed baby to take a bottle is as simple as finding the right bottle. Although it may not be simple at all depending on how many bottles you have to try before you find the right one.

My oldest daughter happily took any bottle, so we went with the cheapest bottles at the store.  But my second baby didn’t like anything at first. And the first four bottles we tried we got nowhere. We finally had success with the Munchkin Latch Bottles.

If you’re struggling to get your breastfed baby to take a bottle, try out different bottles. I suggest only buying them one at a time to try. Bottles are not usually cheap. And if you buy 6 different kinds and your baby only likes one, the rest will be wasted money.

7. Change the Nipple Flow

If switching bottles doesn’t seem to be working, another thing to switch up is the nipple flow. My girls both liked slow flow nipples best from the beginning to the end of their bottle-feeding days. I think it felt the closest to the flow of milk from breastfeeding. But your baby might be different. So do some experimentation.

Fortunately changing bottle nipples doesn’t add up as quickly cost-wise as changing bottles.

pacifier when baby won't take a bottle

8. Offer a Pacifier

Offering a pacifier really helped my daughter adapt to bottle feeding. She was not a pacifier baby early on and she never was as attached to a binky as my older daughter. But when we were trying unsuccessfully with the bottle, offering the pacifier more often helped her get used to the feel of the nipple.

Try to offer a pacifier that is the same brand and nipple shape as the bottle you’re having the most success with. This makes it more likely to help with bottle feeding success.

9. Be Persistent

Like most difficult tasks that are part of parenting, persistence is key. When your baby won’t take a bottle it can be stressful. Especially if you’re coming up to a deadline for returning to work or need to switch to formula or a million other reasons. You worry about them starving themselves when you’re away.

You just have to keep trying. Try different bottles, nipples, locations, positions, and something will eventually click. If it’s been a struggle it’s important to try at least once every day. If you fail and then wait two weeks before trying again with the bottle you’ll lose any progress you might have made.

When your baby refuses the bottle, don’t reward them with the breast immediately after an unsuccessful bottle feeding. Wait at least fifteen minutes or so. And do a different activity in between. The reward for refusing the bottle can’t be they instantly get the breast or they will learn to wait you out. This is another reason you don’t want to wait to try the bottle until your baby is starving.

10. Offer a Cup or Spoon

If you’ve tried, and tried, and tried to get your baby to take a bottle without success, that is so hard. But there are options for the mom with a breastfed baby who absolutely refuses the bottle. If you’re at the point of last resort, there are options for feeding your baby that include offering breastmilk or formula in a cup or a spoon, even a syringe. Fortunately, I never got to this point. But if you’re there, check out this list of resources to help you find something that works.


Did your breastfed baby refuse to take a bottle? What tricks worked best for your baby to successfully bottle feed? Add your tips in the comments!

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  1. Marysa
    March 29, 2018

    Breastfeeding can be so tough. Honestly I switched right over to just pumping and feeding via bottle. It was like the best of both worlds that I could bottlefeed my own breast milk. These are great tips!

    1. Elizabeth
      April 6, 2018

      I can understand this! Although I loved breastfeeding, bottle feeding definitely has it’s upside. It gives you more flexibility and is honestly easier to deal with in public. I have no problem with moms breastfeeding anywhere they need to but that doesn’t make it easy. I am actually interested in doing a post on exclusive pumping. I may reach out to you as a resource! Thanks for reading!

  2. Angela Milnes
    March 30, 2018

    These are some really great tips. I know that it can be so hard during a transition period for anything with a little one.

  3. Angie
    March 30, 2018

    My daughter never had a problem taking the bottle but she wouldn’t take it from me. My husband or someone else would have to feed her if we were out or I had just pumped. She would only take the boob from me lol

  4. Barbara Alfeo
    March 30, 2018

    Love your advice to just leave- it really does make a big difference!

  5. Jasmine
    March 30, 2018

    Breastfeeding is hard. My son did well but that’s awful about your daughter, I never heard of such a thing!

  6. Stefanie
    April 5, 2018

    We’ve tried it all and he still won’t take a bottle!! He’s 6 months now and I’m fortunate to be able to work from home. That said, it can feel a little overwhelming at times to know I have to feed him every.single.time. My first two took a bottle with no issues at all. This one won’t even stand to have a pacifier in his mouth! I’m honestly wondering if we’ll have some major texture issues with food at some point?!

    1. Elizabeth
      April 6, 2018

      Stefanie, that is hard. I’m sorry. It turned out my daughter did have some reflux that was contributing to the problem for us. One thing that helped my daughter take the pacifier and bottle at first was to put a little pear juice on the nipple before putting it in her mouth. You could run that by your pediatrician and give it a try? My daughter was 6 months old also before she consistently took a bottle successfully. Because she had to be weaned, I had no choice but to keep trying. Sorry, it’s been so frustrating for you!

  7. Lauren
    July 3, 2018

    Going through this right now! Babe is 3 months old. Hates bottles, we’ve tried 7 different ones. Doesn’t like pacifiers either. I tried the cup feeding no success 🙁 feeling super discouraged. I only have until the end of August to get him to drink a bottle!

    1. Elizabeth
      July 3, 2018

      I’m sorry! That’s rough! And you’ve tried mom leaving and having someone else give the bottle? If you’re still having no success, ask your baby’s doctor about putting a little 100% pear juice or sugar water on the nipple of the bottle (and then maybe on the pacifier too). This can work. Most babies like the taste enough to keep sucking- but it’s a good idea to clear it with your pediatrician. Good luck!


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